Monday, November 21, 2011

Silence, Who Would Have Thought?



“What you know, I also know; I am not inferior to you. But I desire to speak to the Almighty and to argue my case with God. You, however, smear me with lies; you are worthless physicians, all of you! If only you would be altogether silent! For you, that would be wisdom.” – Job 13:2-5

Reflecting on the story of Job, I find it interesting to examine the helpfulness, (or rather UNhelpfulness) of Job’s friends during the midst of his most trying and difficult circumstances. Initially Job’s friends sat with him for seven days. They did not say a word. But once that first week was over, Job’s friends could not stand it any longer and just HAD to open their mouths to offer a word of “comfort” and “aid”. What were meant to be healing words of wisdom were interpreted by Job as being insensitive and arrogant lies. As a result, Job’s friends merely added to the intense inner turmoil that Job was already experiencing. The lesson learned from all of this is that nobody has all of the answers to suffering, so we need not pretend that we do. There are times in life when we can show more wisdom by keeping our mouths shut than by offering a word of advice, comfort, encouragement, or instruction.

Proverbs 17:28 says “Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent.”

And Proverbs 18:2 “A fool finds no pleasure in understanding but delights in airing his own opinion.”

Instead of speaking and trying to explain away one’s difficult circumstances, we should be a shoulder to cry on, ears to listen, and a person to lean on. Sometimes it is infinitely better to hold the advice and just shut up to listen.

Reflection Questions

Do I take pleasure in understanding others?

Do I delight too much in sharing my own opinion?

In what circumstances would it be better to listen than to speak?

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

SOMEONE TO DEVOUR




“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him standing firm in the faith…”
-1 Peter 5:7-9

Are you someone to devour? As women, it is not difficult for us to begin feeling anxious about things. Many times we let our minds, our faulty assumptions, and our reasoning get the best of us, particularly when it comes to our self-worth as individuals. These lies can destroy us. In reading 1 Peter 5:7-9, I realize that Peter’s warning to be self-controlled and alert after casting our anxiety on the Lord makes tremendous amounts of sense. The Lord brings a peace that surpasses all understanding when we give our anxiety and burdens to him.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
-Philippians 4:6-7

The problem here is that we have an enemy who wants us to experience anything BUT peace. For this reason, Satan will try even harder to make us anxious as we begin and continue to cast our anxiety on the Lord. This is the very reason we MUST be self-controlled and alert when it comes to the thoughts that filter in and out of our minds on a daily basis. Let’s be honest ladies, we think A LOT. Though many of us believe that our thoughts are merely a result of self generation, we need to be alert and remember that our enemy will plant the seeds of negativity and lies in our minds whenever we give him the opportunity. He is, after all, looking for someone to devour.

Where does anxiety come from? Is it not a result of our restless mind? Anxiety can be debilitating, keeping us from being the person God desires. Why else do you think Satan works so hard to get us to experience this horrible emotion? If anxiety is a result of the restless mind, then we should be asking God each and every day to guard our minds in Christ Jesus. But how does this look practically? How do we resist the devil and stand firm in our faith? Here is a quick breakdown of what I have gleaned from the scriptures.

#1 Cast your anxiety on the Lord and present your request for deliverance to Him.
(1 Peter 5:7, Philippians 4:6)

#2 Accept the peace God offers to guard your heart and mind.
(Philippians 4:7)

#3 Be alert and aware of the enemy’s schemes to devour you.
(1 Peter 5:8)

#4 Be self-controlled in your thinking by only dwelling on those things that are true, noble, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent and praiseworthy.
(1 Peter 5:8, Philippians 4:8)

These steps may seem simple, but they are not always going to be easy to follow. So many of us (myself included), are accustomed to being lax and letting our negative thoughts and emotions about our self-worth and purpose get the best of us. Though the steps above may not be easy at times, I think you will find that through diligence in following them you will be  able to #1 resist the devil, #2 stand firm in your faith, and #3 take hold of the unimaginable peace that God offers.

Reflection Questions:

Am I someone who is being easily devoured by anxiety and the lies of the enemy?

What are some of the lies that creep into my mind that need to be exposed?

Out of the 4 steps above, which one do I struggle with the most and why?

What can I do to improve being less anxious, presenting my request for deliverance to the Lord, being alert, and being self-controlled?

Prayer

Lord, It is my desire to take full hold of your peace and live the abundant life that you want for me to have. Please deliver me from my anxiety and fear about [insert struggle here]. Please help me to be ever on my guard against the devil’s schemes. Protect my mind and fill it with your noble truth. Help me to always be self-controlled in my thoughts, only ever thinking about those things which are right and pure. I lift up my hands in surrender to you, may your peace rule in my heart today. Amen!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Living and Active? OR Dead and Passive?


“The word of God is living and active. Shaper that any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” – Hebrews 4:12

Why should we read the Bible? And why in the world should we keep reading it over and over again? How come people don’t ever seem to get tired of the old book? And how can one possibly continue learning new things reading it for the tenth, eleventh, and twelfth time through? The words never change, so why don’t we get bored? I have pondered these questions many times, sometimes out of mere curiosity, and other times out of blunt frustration.

As I was reflecting on these questions one evening, the answer dawned on me. It is true that the word of the Lord never changes, but our individual lives and the lives around us are always in a constant state of change. The struggles, temptations, joys, trials, and fears that we experience today are very different from the ones we experienced last year, or the ones we will encounter a year from now. Because of this, the words of Scripture can take on very different meanings at various times in our lives. What we do not understand today may be something we are enlightened about tomorrow as a result of our present circumstances. As we gain more knowledge and have more experiences, we tend to relate more with certain passages of Scripture. In each stage of our lives we are faced with new challenges and obstacles to overcome, and we need new weapons, tools, and resources to conquer these challenges.

I am reminded of the verse in Deuteronomy 4:29  “If from there you seek the Lord your God, you will find him if you look for him with all of your heart and all of your soul.” 

There have been times in my life when I have been a huge skeptic of the Bible. But I am reminded why it is such an important book as I read it and seek the Lord daily. It is easier to be a skeptic when you do not know much about what you are critical of. In the past I used to think in terms of a “magic number” of minutes when seeking the Lord. Now I realize however, that building a relationship with the Lord of Hosts has nothing to do with an amount of time or a number whatsoever. Rather, it deals with an attitude of the heart. This attitude is that of a humble, sincere, and contrite spirit that says “Here I am Lord. Use me, fill me, and teach me in your presence today.”